Statewide, Virginia's median home price runs $418,375, in line with the $420,000 national median. The 4.5x price-to-income ratio here is measured against a $92,090 median household income.
Property taxes in Virginia average 0.78% of assessed value, below the 1.1% national average. On the median home, that's $3,263 a year, or $272 added to the monthly payment.
Virginia levies a state income tax of 2%–5.75% on top of the $2,584/month this mortgage runs. Model your real after-tax take-home before deciding how much payment you can carry.
Day-to-day expenses statewide track at 102 against the national 100 baseline, above average once you look past the mortgage payment itself.
Virginia's median home price runs 1% lower than Arizona: $421,381 there versus $418,375 here.