Statewide, Virginia's median home price runs $395,000, 6% below the $420,000 national median. The 4.9x price-to-income ratio here is measured against a $80,600 median household income.
Property taxes in Virginia average 0.82% of assessed value, below the 1.1% national average. On the median home, that's $3,239 a year, or $270 added to the monthly payment.
Virginia levies a state income tax of 2%–5.75% on top of the $2,483/month this mortgage runs. Model your real after-tax take-home before deciding how much payment you can carry.
Day-to-day expenses statewide track at 104 against the national 100 baseline, above average once you look past the mortgage payment itself.
Virginia's median home price runs almost identical to Arizona, both landing close to $395,000.